Friday, March 09, 2007 good or bad.. i guess its perspective we all have.. but you know what.. in every situation/scenario/circumstances no one should be pointing to another for the blame.. because for something to happen to occur it takes 2 hands. therefore if its a quarrel you're engage in, a break in friendship/relationship, we all need to be mature to accept we have part of the blame and not point our finger at the other. this is because it won't be fair to the other person, and saying those stuffs just goes to prove that you're super prideful and can't accept the wrongs that are going on in your life. what is written is not to offend anyone or pretend to know everything. just writing out because i think in this age, we are all so prone to pointing fingers but never really getting down to solve the problem. we need to learn to grow up and not grow even more in love with our pride. i have my mistakes as well, that's why when something bad happens i restrain myself from talking much to people, from even blogging at times. cause i know i will end up saying things that i'll regret. guess its a learning journey we're on, to be a better person, better son/daughter, better friend, better girlfriend/boyfriend, better mother/father, better wife/husband and the list goes on. never be afraid to face failures, cause they are all part of growing. if things end which you really hope it didn't, take heart, there're always other people out there who have made a worser decision. learn from your mistake and move on. but never never be tied down by unnecessary accusation or any sort. for me.. why not you tell me if it has ended or not.. cause to me.. its a fullstop. how i wish its a comma.. Labels: life's lesson, pride He blessed me at 12:28 PM |